Lights out might be killing your marriage

Guys are visual creatures right?  We don’t know why but that’s just how God made us.  Our wives just have to get changed in front of us and we’re in the mood for love.  Often it’s less than that.  We are visually stimulated.

Women are often self conscious about their bodies.  If they’ve had kids, chances are they’re in the majority of women who’s bodies didn’t bounce back to pre-child days.  Most women struggle to lose post-baby fat and it makes them even more self conscious!

So there’s a dilemma when making love.  Men like lighting (flood lighting if possible) and women often prefer pitch black can’t-see-your-hand-in-front-of-your-face darkness.

The problem I have with this dilemma isn’t just that I don’t get to see my wife’s gorgeous body when we’re making love, it’s that in the normal course of life I see more of OTHER women’s bodies than I do my wife’s!!

This is frustrating and creates a unhealthy, unsustainable sex life and could drive men to look elsewhere to satisfy their craving for visually stimulating sex.

THE SOLUTION?  Candles.  Candles enable the man to see and they bring light that flatters the woman enabling her to be less self conscious and more confident.  Candles (or your mobile phone torch – but candles are better) are a happy medium and create a win-win for both sides!

Try it out married couples!